SEEKERS BDSM CHECKLIST SKIN

My main advice would be to hang in there and not feel like everything has to be filled out.

I wanted to make sure to have the core list overall complete, but this may come off as a bit much to beginners. This way one can quickly see the Loves and Hates then go back for a second pass for finer detail. It may look busy at first, but the color coding really helps making the checklist scan-able for key information. The notes section can be really handy to give a quick declaration of why one gave the interest level for said item or clarify special circumstances. For a while it was considered mostly just accounting type software, but now thanks to Google Docs and other online systems the Excel file format is much more accessible.Īs for the main layout I wanted to make sure someone could declare interest, existing experience, and then a section for notes to clarify any particulars. Ranging from pdfs, to doc files, to websites, they all were pretty much a mess and then it came to me that trying to use an Excel file was a no brainer. On my research to find a decent preexisting checklist it seemed something was always missing, they weren't always easy to share, and the data on a completed checklist wasn't always easy to review. Using Excel as the main platform it may come off a bit nerdy, however the format is much easier to open and use these days. You (the Dominant) may want to wear gloves and have a first aid kit handy just in case.ĭisclaimer: A Toilet brush was great for abrasion and to a degree humiliation, BUT make sure you use a new brush or at least one cleaned/sanitized thoroughly with bleach to prevent infections.After scouring the net and generally not being satisfied with any checklists out there I took matters in my own hands to make one that would be an obvious improvement. This the becomes a portal of entry for infection, or as a source for spreading HIV, Hepatitis or other infections.

SEEKERS BDSM CHECKLIST SKIN

When doing abrasion play there is a risk of breaking the skin and causing bleeding. The Dom can use wire or bristle brushes, a toothbrush, Emery board, wool or steel wool pads, or even sandpaper.Īfter the area is deep pink or red, and the skin very sensitive the Dom may want to intensify the feeling by dripping a little hot wax on the area, or simply dragging a rough fingernail through the braided area. It can be done anywhere on the skin, but preferences my be the buttocks, breasts/chest, abdomen or thighs. In abrasion play the Dominant uses something rough to “wake up” and sensitize the skin of the submissive. The first activity i am discussing is ABRASION The second half of each answer pertains to your experience level and has four choices:

First you will evaluate your preferences your desire to do or not to do each one. There are two answers for each activity that i will introduce weekly.

A short list of other checklists are listed below for you to search on Google. The checklists are intended to be used by Dominants and submissives PRIOR to playing to determine each other’s HARD limits, soft limits, and to identify those activities that each person gets into. These activities are taken from checklists you can find online through any search engine. Today i am beginning a weekly Feature Post that will present a new BDSM/Kink activity that you may or may not have ever heard of.

Seekers bdsm checklist